In the Sri
Lankan Parliament, condolences are taken up on the last sitting day of the
week, and the chamber is very poorly attended, and the family of the person,
usually an ex-MP who has passed on, come to listen to the condolences from all
sides of the chamber, as party political differences are set aside on these
days, to pay tribute to the deceased!
The trouble is
it is too long deceased. Often the condolence is for an MP who has died over a
year previously. How ridiculous can that be? Kalpanakarananna what an
anachronism that is. This happens when tradition takes over from common sense,
and we are enslaved by tradition, not realizing that tradition is all cockeyed.
Contrast that
with the wonderful tributes given in memory of Charles Kennedy the previous
leader of the Liberal Democrats, who died the day before yesterday, and the
condolences were heard in a packed House of Commons, just after Prime
Minister’s Question Time!
We in Sri Lanka
are very quick to dismiss anything English as being peculiar, but think of no
better time, just after the death of the MP, long before even the funeral
service, which will only be attended by very few close friends and family, that
the House takes time to give ALL those who wish to say a few words of condolences
to do so. The son of the MP only 10 years old was in the visitor’s gallery to
hear the eulogies for his father from those who were from opposing camps in the
House of Commons.
Frankly should
we waste our time attending funerals and funeral houses, sometimes having to
travel miles to do so, and take the best part of a day, from a very tight and
busy schedule when these self-same politicians who do this funeral round, can
eulogize instantly in a short period in the Parliament Chamber, where Hansard
will record what they said.
It should be all
about prioritizing life, doing what is important, and recognizing people when
they need to be recognized, and NOT when you set a time for this tribute.
Kalpanakaranna
is the order of the day, and determine that it is high time, that useless
practices are scrapped, and sensible alternatives adopted for life and death!
Only then will society grow up from a slumber of enslavement, where reason for certain
practices are NOT questioned, but followed BLINDLY.
When will Sri
Lankans really open their eyes and see fraud for what it is, and politicians
for who they are, and boru show for what it is, and lead a life of sense and
sensibility?
Imagine how you
can remember a man who has departed this world so long, that when you are asked
by his family to say a few words, you are at a loss for what to say! A word of
condolence a day or two after the death will come more easily to the mind, and
the instance related in a more human sense, reminding us of the uncertainty of
life, and the real need to express our loss in words that are truly personal and
not contrived for an audience, where speeches are written for you.
Time for another
time out, change the rules, and replace outdated practices with novelty!